The deception behind gender confusion and cross dressing
Vanity comes in many different forms, and is affecting people in many different ways. One way in particular is leading our world down a very dangerous avenue. It is one of the greatest and most deceptive abominations of our time. It is the abomination that people are claiming they were born the wrong gender. They claim to have been born with the wrong sexual organs, and some are even having their gender changed through surgical procedure. Homosexuality in itself is an abomination to God but to physically change one’s sexual organs by means of surgery is both spiritually and physically detrimental to our society. Very important: if you are reading this and you have had a gender change operation, or are thinking about it, please say the prayers at the end of this document. Also say the prayer in my document on ‘unholy sexual cords’. God loves you and He will forgive you and show you what to do next!
Scripture warns us about wearing each other’s clothing; much less each others body parts. Deuteronomy 22:5: The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God. With the technology today people are actually taking sin to a greater level. People are not only exchanging their clothing but they are changing their sexual organs! No matter what the world calls it – it is still homosexuality, and homosexuality is an abomination. For scriptural warning against homosexuality see Leviticus 18:22; 20:13; Romans 1:24, 26-27; I Corinthians 6:9-10; I Timothy 1:10-11; Jude 7; for the sinful men of Sodom (sodomites) see Genesis 13:13; I Kings 14:23-24. Isaiah 3:9: The shew of their countenance doth witness against them; and they declare their sin as Sodom, they hide it not. Woe unto their soul! for they have rewarded evil unto themselves. For scriptural warning against gender change see Jude verse 7: Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire. The Greek word for ‘strange’in Jude verse 7 is “heteros, het’-er-os; …altered”. I Corinthians 6:9: Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind. The Greek word for ‘abusers’ in I Corinthians 6:9 is “arsenokoites, ar-sen-ok-oy’-tace; …a sodomite… abuser of (that defile) self with mankind”.
When God creates a person He creates them to be one particular gender. When that person claims to be born the wrong gender, or wants to change their gender, they are defying God. I know that there are rare occasions where people have been born with the sexual organs of both genders (called hermaphrodites) and that doctors performed surgery on them to remove one of the sexual organs. Through medical tests and examination the doctors determined what gender the child really was and performed surgery to correct their physical defect. On these rare occasions when a hermaphrodite baby is born it is very possible that former family incest (possibly several generations back) caused this to happen. It may also be possible that some type of drug taken during pregnancy could have caused this birth defect. However; looking at the spiritual side, it is possible that the baby’s forefathers actually worshipped and revered the false Greek god Hermaphroditus. They had another god instead of the One and Only true God, which allowed and encouraged iniquity to visit future family members – and one to be born a hermaphrodite. Everything physical has a spiritual side and it is highly possible that a hermaphrodite baby was born that way because it was visited by the iniquity of its fathers!
Any person who wants to change their gender, and makes the conscious decision to do so (because they think they were born with the wrong sexual organs) their action is an abomination to God. One of Satan’s greatest deceptions is to trick a person into gender confusion, and then tempt them to give in to an unclean spirit of homosexuality. To alter a person’s gender will not change the fact that they are practicing a homosexual lifestyle.
Many people try and escape from their own body by attempting to change it to another gender – another means of attaining an out of body experience. They are trying to escape their past. There are many different reasons a person would want to escape their past. One example is molestation. In the case of molestation a person may want to change their gender because they do not want to attract another sexual encounter. To them the pain of the past is something they do not want to remember, so they will do anything in an attempt to get away from it. They believe that if they can change who they are they will no longer feel the pain of their old life. If they were male in gender at the time of their attack they believe if they were to try and become female they would no longer be attractive to their attacker, or future attacks. While another person (one who is perhaps a cross dresser) may want to escape their identity for reasons unknown even to them self. Some cross dressers claim they are neither homosexual, nor were they molested, but just like to wear clothing of the opposite gender. When a person goes to such extreme measures as a way of trying to escape who they are then there are things in their life that they have not dealt with. Again, this is their way of trying to achieve an out of body experience. More times than not the person trying to escape has been mentally or physically abused but has blocked it out of their mind. (To forgive someone who has hurt you please read my document on forgiveness…there is a prayer at the end!)
Though most problems are only seen in the physical, the root of the problems is spiritual. Due to lack of knowledge most people (including Christians) are visited spiritually by the same sins – evil spirits – that visited their forefathers. They are deceived by evil seducing spirits that are playing games with their mind, and their emotions. (Many have even allowed or welcomed this evil deception into their home, and their mind, through their false spiritual décor: which includes pictures and statues of Jesus, saints, Mary, and angels.) A person will do many different things when they have been spiritually deceived. This can include turning to homosexuality, or cross dressing. Some men will even attend what is known as pumping parties to have rubber silicone [the kind you would buy in a store] injected directly into their chest to try and create breasts! Attempting to exchange one’s identity (their gender), either through surgery or clothing, to that of the opposite sex is an abomination before God. Matthew 19:4: And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female. Mark 10:6: But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. Deuteronomy 22:5: The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God. Jude verse 7: Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire. The Greek word for ‘strange’in Jude verse 7 is “heteros, het’-er-os; …altered”. When you alter your body you change or modify the way God has created you.
Some may be concerned about the scripture in the previous paragraph (Deuteronomy 22:5) regarding clothing. When referring to this particular scripture one must keep in mind that what may have been masculine in that era is not masculine now. For instance, the men and women of that time both wore garments resembling a dress (though there was a distinction between the man’s garment and the woman’s). If you read the scripture verse in Deuteronomy 22:5 you will see that it says a woman shall not wear that which pertaineth (or is suitable or appropriate) for a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment. Today it is not appropriate or suitable for a man to wear a dress because in this day and time dresses pertain only to a woman. Many people take this scripture out of context in an effort to say that women cannot wear pants but that is not what the scripture is saying because men did not even wear pants back then. This scripture is simply telling us that we are to wear clothing suitable to our own gender. I know that everyone at one time or another has worn clothing made for the opposite sex. Example: Perhaps someone wore hand-me-downs from their older siblings, or other children, because as they were growing their parents did not have a lot of money for clothes. Or, perhaps someone wears pants specifically made for the opposite gender because they fit better. Does it mean that everyone who has done this has disobeyed scripture and has cross dressed? The answer is no! If a child had to wear clothing that was passed down to them from their siblings, or other children, they were not cross dressing. The same applies for a woman who wears men’s pants, or a man who wears women’s pants, when they are trying to find clothing to fit their body frame. But, any man who is wearing women’s pants and accessorizing with bracelets, high heals, and make-up is trying to attain a feminine appearance and is cross dressing. Or, any woman who is wearing men’s pants, carrying a man’s wallet in her back pocket, wearing a man’s wristwatch, a man’s dress shoes, or a man’s necktie, in an effort to attain a masculine appearance is cross dressing. Wearing a pair of pants for a better fit is one thing; but trying to pass yourself off as the opposite gender, even changing your name to fit that gender, goes against scripture and is an abomination to the Lord. Many who cross dress do practice homosexuality, though some cross dressers claim they are not homosexual. They may claim their desire to cross dress is just another part of who they really are. But if this were true (and it is not) this is a part of them that is out of their control. It is also a part that many cross dressers are ashamed of (which is why many hide it from their family and friends). Some will even leave town for days at a time to become who they will claim is this other part of them. However, there are some who may not be ashamed and do not care who sees them! It is very sad when a person is so deceived that they try and become someone God has not created them to be. They need deliverance! This lifestyle is dangerous for them physically, emotionally, and spiritually because very evil seducing spirits are behind all these forms of deception. I Timothy 4:1: NOW the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils. The Greek word for ‘seducing’ in I Timothy 4:1 is “planos, plan’-os; roving… an impostor or misleader, deceiver”. Evil seducing spirits are causing people to believe (and live) a lie. The same lying evil spirits that suggest (or plant evil seeds of desire) in a person’s mind, trying to convince them they are homosexual, are the same lying evil spirits that entice a person to cross dress. These seducing spirits are the evil incubus/succubus sexual spirits. They can deceive a person’s conscious and subconscious mind by continually making evil suggestions to that person (even while asleep). Whispering lies into that person’s ears daily! A cross dresser interviewed on MSNBC investigates “The Secret Wardrobe” said that when he tried to stop cross dressing and throw away (what he referred to as “purging”) all his female attire he would only stop for a time but would then start dreaming about it and begin cross dressing again. He could not stop this lifestyle!
There are evil seducing spirits that come to a person while awake or while asleep and entice them sexually, even tempting (or testing) their sexuality. Though evil spirits do not have a gender they can mimic whatever a person desires or fantasizes about. Seducing spirits can mislead a person to believe anything, even to believe they are being visited by a family member who has passed away. Seducing spirits can impersonate anyone, or anything, the person desires or wants. They can also deceive a person into believing what they (the seducing spirits) want or desire them to believe. These evil spirits will begin telling the person (even from childhood) that they are homosexual, or that nobody loves them, etc., until eventually the person begins to believe it. Seducing spirits can inhabit a person’s subconscious and conscious mind to deceive and entice them into acting out on whatever the evil spirit suggests. The person then (unknowingly) allows seducing spirits to use and abuse their body. Whether a person is innocently molested; or willingly engages in a sexual act outside of marriage, an unholy cord is connected in their life causing all evil attacks on their mind and their soul to intensify. See my document on ‘sexual cords’, along with the prayer of deliverance for removal of these unholy sexual cords. According to the Bible, in both the Hebrew and the Greek translations, ‘lust’ and ‘desire’ does connect with our ‘soul’. The Hebrew word for ‘soul’ in the Old Testament is “nephesh, neh’-fesh; …sense… appetite… breath… desire… greedy… heart… life… lust… mind… pleasure… will”. The Greek word for ‘soul’ in the New Testament is “psuche, psoo-khay’; …breath… heart… mind”. The Greek terms “exactly correspond respectively” to the Hebrew. When evil spirits continually attack a person’s mind the person can begin to develop unquenchable desires which they are unable to control. Even a Christian can fall subject to evil spirits unless they learn and obey scripture. They must learn to combat this evil attack on their mind and soul through scripture. II Corinthians 10:5: Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.
Many people (including Christians) do not realize evil spirits are at the root of every sinful desire(s) and these evil spirits are trying to seduce and oppress them in an effort to try and destroy them. Evil spirits attempt to possess (or in a Christian’s case oppress) a person’s mind and body in an effort to manipulate and use them, ultimately trying to destroy them. When evil spirits inhabit a person’s body, these evil spirits can feel what that person feels (sexually and otherwise). This is how evil spirits can become sexual spirits. However; as explained in my important document on ‘Genesis Chapter 6’, these evil spirits cannot impregnate flesh! If you do not believe evil spirits can feel or sense things then what about the following scripture which says evil spirits seek rest. Obviously they can feel tired. Matthew 12:43 and Luke 11:24: When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man, he walketh through dry places, seeking rest, and findeth none. This scripture also shows us that evil spirits can inhabit a person, because it says “When the unclean spirit is gone out of a man”. Evil spirits can also sense, or experience fear, and even torment. Matthew 8:28-31: And when he was come to the other side into the country of the Gergesenes, there me him two possessed with devils, coming out of the tombs, exceeding fierce, so that no man might pass by that way. And, behold, they cried out saying, What have we to do with thee, Jesus, thou Son of God? art thou come hither to torment us before the time? And there was a good way off from them an herd of many swine feeding. So the devils besought him, saying, If thou cast us out, suffer us to go away into the herd of swine. Evil spirits desire to inhabit a fleshy body, and will even take a pig’s body!
Satan and his evil spirits are the inspiration behind evil and negative thoughts; yet many Christians (including leaders) tell us that Satan is not responsible for the bad things we do. It seems as though many Christians are taking up for Satan; but I for one am not letting Satan off the hook that easy! Many Christians are in bondage to Satan’s devices and are not coming to the church for help because the church is not teaching the truth of God’s Word. Instead of turning to God many Christians are turning to psychiatrists (when most psychiatrists do not even believe in the Bible). Christians run to the doctor (first) before praying – or if they pray they do not wait on the Lord to give him time to answer their prayer. There is nothing wrong with going to a medical physician (because God did give them wisdom to help people); however, many Christians do not (first) ask God to heal them, or even believe that He can, but instead are fearfully running to a doctor. They are taking all kinds of medication and cannot even think clearly enough to read their Bible or to pray. They are oppressed by evil spirits and the psychiatrist has convinced them that they are either manic depressive, or bi-polar, etc.; and puts them on a bunch of medication. The psychiatrist then tells them that certain areas of their mind are suffering from an imbalance and in turn gives them even more medication in an effort to balance it. Then they have to give them some other kind of medicine to stop the side affects this medicine caused – and so on and so on. For more information about the spiritual (small s) root behind bi-polar see my document on the ‘connection between soul and spirit’.
Many people (including Christians) do not realize this but when evil spirits constantly bring bad thoughts to a person’s mind, and the person continually dwells on those negative thoughts, they are using that portion of their mind more than others. Many times the person’s ancestors even had the same problems that they are having, and so the doctors tell them that this is a sickness they have physically and emotionally inherited from their ancestors. In one sense this is true, however, the problems they are experiencing are just as much spiritual as physical. Their physical and emotional problems (manifestations) are due to a spiritually evil visitation – the same evil that visited their ancestors. They are being visited with the iniquity of their forefathers, and a lot of the time it is because they have brought something into their home, or have participated in something that has re-connected them to this generational pattern of iniquity after salvation. They are being visited by the same evil spirits that visited their ancestors, and like some of their forefathers, they have fallen for Satan’s evil deception. However, they do not have to inherit this evil visitation; they can be set free through Jesus Christ, and maintain their freedom by walking in and obeying His Word. Unknowingly, many times the visitations they are experiencing are because they have followed man’s traditions – instead of following God’s Word – and have brought spiritually evil doorways into their home. These evil doorways allow Satan and his evil spirits to torment their mind daily, causing them to constantly dwell on the bad things and not develop the areas of their mind through which God speaks to them. Philippians 4:8: Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Some areas of a person’s mind (the areas that Satan affects through torment, fear, or fantasy) have had so much activity that other areas of their mind have shut down – areas of their mind that God, through His Word, told them to develop. Areas like peace, joy, faith, etc. Exercising the wrong area of the mind is the imbalance that develops, and medication will not renew the balance – but deliverance through God’s Word will! Ephesians 4:17-27: This I say therefore, and testify in the Lord, that ye henceforth walk not as other Gentiles walk, in the vanity of their mind, Having the understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart: Who being past feeling have given themselves over unto lasciviousness, to work all uncleanness with greediness. But ye have not so learned Christ; If so be that ye have heard him, and have been taught by him, as the truth is in Jesus: That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts; And be renewed in the spirit of your mind; And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness. Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another. Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: Neither give place to the devil.
Continually listening to Satan’s evil suggestions can, and will, cause some areas of a person’s mind to have less development than others. Which can even show up on a CAT scan, MRI, or X-ray. The Bible tells us (as Christians) to renew our mind with God’s Word – not with the world, or with Satan’s evil suggestions. It is time for us to clean Satan’s garbage out our Christian homes, and to start washing our mind with God’s Word. Before trusting in doctors, we need to first trust in God’s Word! Romans 12:2: And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. Ephesians 5:26: That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word.
For one reason or another many people try and escape their pain by trying to escape who they really are. Due to their emotional, mental, and physical denial they have become susceptible to evil spirits. Running from (or denying) their pain, instead of giving this deep pain to Jesus Christ, many are under the influence of these evil spirits and do not even realize it. They just know something is wrong! Note: If anyone reading this is already on medication please do not stop taking your medication, but pray. In time, God will help you to be set free from the medication and the problems that caused you to turn to the medicine in the first place. If you just suddenly stop taking the medicine you will hurt your body, because your system now has a chemical imbalance due to the medication and you will need to slowly be taken off of it. I would suggest that if you do not have a Christian doctor (one who turns to the Word instead of all the medication) you need to find one. Also very important, clean out your house! I have a document of suggested ‘things to remove’.
Some people may not turn to medication at all but may turn to other things. Some will turn to lust, homosexuality, cross dressing, or even false religion, because their emotional pain is so great. Some who turn to homosexuality no longer want to live in the body God gave them so they will get a sex change operation; or some will just change their clothes to look like the opposite gender in an effort to make their problems to go away. Jude verse 7: Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire. The Greek word for ‘strange’in Jude verse 7 is “heteros, het’-er-os; …altered”. A cross dresser usually does not want to do anything permanent, but wants only to escape temporarily. Instead of permanently altering their flesh they alter only their clothes. For those who want to take a more spiritual route of escape from their problems they will try and meditate their problems away – but this false religious practice will only add to their problems. See my document about the dangers of ‘Eastern transcendental meditation’. The bottom line is that people (yes, even many Christians) are hurting and have become vulnerable to Satan’s attacks. It is time for us (as Christians) to learn the truth of God’s Word and to walk it. Sadly, many Christians do not know God’s Word well enough to recognize that Satan is (and has been) deceiving them. Christians must learn (and walk in) God’s truth before we can show others that the only deliverance from their hurt and pain is through Jesus Christ, there is no other way. Trying to medicate, meditate, join a false religion, or even change their gender or clothing, will not set them free from their problems. It will only cover them up! God does not intend for people to live in bondage. Changing our gender, clothes, or our name cannot change who we really are. God created each person to be either male or female and nothing can change that fact. Genesis 1:27: So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. Matthew 19:4: And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female. Mark 10:6: But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
One final note concerning pornography and other sinful abominations: There are many different types of pornography which lead people (including Christians) into different types of perverted and abominable practices: i.e. homosexuality, bi-sexuality, cross dressing, adultery, fornication, incest, rape, sexual fantasy, a desire to have sex with the dead, sadomasochism, visitations from succubus and incubus sexual spirits, bestiality, etc. For scriptural warning against homosexuality see Leviticus 18:22; 20:13; Romans 1:24, 26-27; I Corinthians 6:9-10; I Timothy 1:10-11; Jude 7; for the sinful men ofSodom (sodomites) see Genesis 13:13; I Kings 14:23-24; for warning against bestiality see Leviticus 18:23; 20:15; for warning against fornication see I Thessalonians 4:3; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; I Corinthians 6:9, 13, 18; I Corinthians 10:8; II Corinthians 12:21 for warning against adultery see Galatians 5:19; Matthew 5:27-28; Matthew 19:18; Mark 10:19; Luke 18:20; Romans 13:9. I Corinthians 6:9: Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind. The Greek word for ‘abusers’ in I Corinthians 6:9 is “arsenokoites, ar-sen-ok-oy’-tace; …a sodomite… abuser of (that defile) self with mankind”. Isaiah 3:9: The shew of their countenance doth witness against them; and they declare their sin as Sodom, they hide it not. Woe unto their soul! For they have rewarded evil unto themselves.
In the following portion of scripture God warns His people through Moses against every sinful abomination. Leviticus 18:1-30: AND the Lord spake unto Moses, saying, Speak unto the children of Israel, and say unto them, I am the Lord your God. After the doings of the land of Egypt, wherein ye dwelt, shall ye not do: and after the doings of the land Canaan, whither I bring you, shall ye not do: neither shall ye walk in their ordinances. Ye shall do my judgments, and keep mine ordinances, to walk therein: I am the Lord your God. Ye shall therefore keep my statutes, and my judgments: which if a man do, he shall live in them: I am the Lord. None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their nakedness: I am the Lord. The nakedness of thy father, or the nakedness of thy mother, shalt thou not uncover: she is thy mother; thou shalt not uncover her nakedness. The nakedness of thy father’s wife shalt thou not uncover: it is thy father’s nakedness. The nakedness of thy sister, the daughter of thy father, or daughter of thy mother, whether she be born at home, or born abroad, even their nakedness thou shalt not uncover. The nakedness of thy son’s daughter, or of thy daughter’s daughter, even their nakedness thou shalt not uncover: for their’s is thine own nakedness. The nakedness of thy father’s wife’s daughter, begotten of thy father, she is thy sister, thou shalt not uncover her nakedness. Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of thy father’s sister: she is thy father’s sister: she is thy father’s near kinswoman. Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of thy mother’s sister: for she is thy mother’s near kinswoman. Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of thy father’s brother, thou shalt not approach to his wife: she is thine aunt. Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of thy daughter in law: she is thy son’s wife, thou shalt not uncover her nakedness. Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of thy brother’s wife: it is thy brother’s nakedness. Thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of a woman and her daughter, neither shalt thou take her son’s daughter, or her daughter’s daughter, to uncover her nakedness; for they are her near kinswomen: it is wickedness. Neither shalt thou take a wife to her sister, to vex her, to uncover her nakedness, beside the other in her life time. Also thou shalt not approach unto a woman to uncover her nakedness, as long as she is put apart for her uncleanness. Moreover thou shalt not lie carnally with thy neighbour’s wife, to defile thyself with her. And thou shalt not let any of thy seed pass through the fire to Molech, neither shalt thou profane the name of thy God: I am the Lord. Thou shalt not lie with mankind, and with womankind: it is abomination. Neither shalt thou lie with any beast to defile thyself therewith: neither shall any woman stand before a beast to lie down thereto: it is confusion. Defile not ye yourselves in any of these things: for in all these the nations are defiled which I cast out before you: And the land is defiled: therefore I do visit the iniquity thereof upon it, and the land itself vomiteth out her inhabitants. Ye shall therefore keep my statutes and my judgments, and shall not commit any of these abominations; neither any of your own nation, nor any stranger that sojourneth among you: (For all these abominations have the men of the land done, which were before you, and the land is defiled;) That the land spue not you out also, when ye defile it, and it spued out the nations that were before you. For whosoever shall commit any of these abominations, even the souls that commit them shall be cut off from among their people. Therefore shall ye keep mine ordinance, that ye commit not any one of these abominable customs, which were committed before you, and that ye defile not yourselves therein: I am the Lord your God.
Ecclesiastes 12:13-14: Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man. For God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil. Jeremiah 23:24: Can any hide himself in secret places that I shall not see him? Saith the Lord. Do not I fill heaven and earth? Saith the Lord.
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If you need prayer, please read the following explanation about sexual cords and say the prayer at the end. There are also prayers in my document of ‘things to remove from our homes and churches’.
PRAYER TO SEVER UNHOLY SEXUAL CORDS
The following is a brief explanation about sexual cords. A sexual cord is something that connects one person to another; sort of like an invisible rope. Scripture tells us that when two people marry they become one (this is an example of a holy cord, or a Biblical union). Genesis 2:24: Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Matthew 19:4-6: And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh. Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. Mark 10:6-9: But from the beginning of creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife: And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. Ephesians 5:31: For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
Notice scripture says marriage is for a man and a woman, a man and his wife; proving that God does not sanctify homosexuality, or multi-partner unions – which are unholy cords or unions. Speaking expressly against homosexuality. Leviticus 18:22: Thou shalt not lie with mankind, and with womankind: it is abomination. Leviticus 20:13: If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them. Also see Romans 1:24-27. Anything outside of a Biblical one man one woman marriage union is an unholy cord.
In an unholy cord or union not only do people share physical things, including sexually transmitted diseases, but they are also sharing spiritually evil things (resulting in bondage). In Proverbs 5:22 it says; His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with cords of his sins. In Proverbs 5:22 the Hebrew word for ‘cords’ is “chebel, kheh’-bel, or chebel, khay’-bel; a rope (as twisted)… a noose (as of cords); fig. a company (as if tied together)… ruin… cord… destruction, line… pain… rope, snare, sorrow”. I have had people come to me for help telling me that they are having a problem with thoughts of suicide when they had never been troubled by this before. It was not a generational pattern of iniquity because none of their ancestors had ever attempted suicide (at least to their knowledge). When we talked further we discovered they had sexual relations with someone who had. After praying a prayer to break unholy cords they were not tormented with suicidal thoughts any longer. The same can be said for drug addiction or anything else that has a person in bondage.
Because you may be saved this does not mean you automatically forget all the things or people that have been connected to your life (or still may be), and the negative emotional affect this has had on you. It is important to understand what an unnatural or unholy cord is and how it has affected your life, even if it happened before you were saved you still suffer the emotional affects. Many times because a person is a Christian they believe that Satan cannot affect them, especially their soul. However, anytime a person, including a Christian, gives in to lust of the flesh it affects or touches their soul (which is their mind, will, and emotions). The Hebrew word for ‘soul’ in the Old Testament is “nephesh, neh’-fesh; …sense… appetite… breath… desire… greedy… heart… life… lust… mind… pleasure… will”. The Greek word for ‘soul’ in the New Testament is “psuche, psoo-khay’; …breath… heart… mind”. The Greek terms “exactly correspond respectively” to the Hebrew. God’s Holy Spirit lives in our spirit when we are saved, but when we allow sin and temptation of the flesh to affect our soul how long will God continue to dwell in our spirit? When a person cannot stop themselves from sinning and repeatedly gives in to sin then this person, or Christian, is in bondage. It is Satan’s desire to keep Christians in bondage to their past and he has successfully done this through continued sinful practices and/or unclean objects and décor. Scripture tells us that we are not to be ignorant of Satan’s devices. II Corinthians 2:11: Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices. If you are a Christian and you feel you may be in bondage to sin please say the following prayer and sever (cut) all unholy cords, and allow God to deliver you from this bondage.
Important: In the blanks below you can put not only people, but things. You can put yoga, martial arts, music, drugs, pornography, masturbation, narcissism, homosexuality, bi-sexuality, orgies, abuse, attempted suicide, sadomasochism, gender change, cross dressing, sexual relations with animals (including fantasy relations, mental shape-shifting, lycanthropy, and any connection with animal spirit guides), watching movies that insinuate having sexual relations with the dead (and any connection with necromancy), unnatural relationships between family members (or any involvement with ancestral spirits/familiar spirits), incubus and succubus spirits, or put down a mirror if used for sexual pleasure. The Bible tells us in Matthew 5:28 if we even look at someone and lust after them we have in essence had relations with them in our heart. This would even include lusting after one’s own self - narcissism! Put down anyone or anything the Lord may bring to your mind in the blanks provided in the following prayer, or use an extra sheet of paper. After saying the prayer you can just tear up the paper and throw it away. An in depth explanation of the things mentioned above and much more, including prayer, can be found in my book called “Truth or Tradition”. If you are interested ask me for a copy.
Note: An unholy or unnatural cord does not necessarily have to be a sexual relationship it can be any destructive emotional tie. This emotional tie can be with a person or even an animal. See my document on Shamanism for an example of an animal tie.
Please Pray:
Father God, in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I give you the people and/or evil things that I have allowed into my life ____________ ____________ ______________ ______________. I ask you to forgive me and to remove the evil affect this has had on my life. I ask you to destroy, and sever, every unholy and unnatural cord (or false umbilical cord) that I have ever allowed into my life. I ask you to remove every sin (and unclean evil spirit) that has oppressed my soul due to these evil cords. I command every evil thought (and evil spirit) that has afflicted, influenced, or tormented my thoughts to leave me in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. I ask you Lord Jesus to cleanse me and deliver me from everything in my life that has separated me from you. I give you every temptation, bondage, and sin that I have ever accepted through these cords and I ask you to take it all away. From this day forward, every unholy or unnatural cord of my past (and present) is severed and destroyed – never to be used by the devil to hold me in bondage again. Lord Jesus, I ask you to remove every spiritually evil doorway that Satan or any of his evil spirits have ever had in my mind and life. I thank you Lord because I know you have heard my confessions, have forgiven me, and cleansed me from all unrighteousness. I John 1:9: If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. From this day forward I ask that you would give me every good thing you have ever desired for my life; including hope, joy, peace, and love. Romans 15:13: Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost. Isaiah 26:3: Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee. Ephesians 4:23: And be renewed in the spirit of your mind. Psalm 119:165: Great peace have they which love thy law: and nothing shall offend them.”
Note: In order to completely sever these cords you should also remove all the things that the person(s) on your list gave to you, such as: pictures, letters or love letters, cards, clothing, jewelry, trinkets, and especially religious décor, etc. Let the Lord lead you!
